Romance Scam Warning Signs: Pause When a New Contact Asks for Money

Consumer explainer | Dating

A financial request from an online romantic contact deserves a pause, even when the conversation has felt personal and consistent. The immediate decision is not whether the story is emotionally convincing, but whether sending money is safe.

The FTC advises against sending money or gifts to a romantic interest you have not met in person. Its consumer guidance explains that scammers can adapt their stories to the situation and the person they are targeting.

If a request arrives, step outside the conversation. Talk to someone you trust, verify details independently, and avoid following payment instructions supplied by the contact. Urgency should not prevent you from taking time to examine what is happening.

If you suspect a scam, stop sending money and contact the payment provider promptly about possible recovery. Report the profile to the platform and use official fraud-reporting channels. This is a consumer warning, not a judgment about legitimate relationships that begin online.

Source: FTC guidance on romance scams.